What is love?

It is one of the most difficult questions for the mankind. Centuries have passed by, relationships have bloomed and so has love. But no one can give the proper definition of love. To some Love is friendship set on fire for others Maybe love is like luck. You have to go all the way to find it. No matter how you define it or feel it, love is the eternal truth in the history of mankind.

Love is patient, love is kind. It has no envy, nor it boasts itself and it is never proud. It rejoices over the evil and is the truth seeker. Love protects; preserves and hopes for the positive aspect of life. Always stand steadfast in love, not fall into it. It is like the dream of your matter of affection coming true. Love can occur between two or more individuals. It bonds them and connects them in a unified link of trust, intimacy and interdependence. It enhances the relationship and comforts the soul. Love should be experienced and not just felt. The depth of love can not be measured. Look at the relationship between a mother and a child. The mother loves the child unconditionally and it can not be measured at all. A different dimension can be attained between any relationships with the magic of love. Love can be created. You just need to focus on the goodness of the other person. If this can be done easily, then you can also love easily. And remember we all have some positive aspect in us, no matter how bad our deeds maybe. And as God said ?Love all?

Depending on context, love can be of different varieties. Romantic love is a deep, intense and unending. It shared on a very intimate and interpersonal and sexual relationship. The term Platonic love, familial love and religious love are also matter of great affection. It is more of desire, preference and feelings. The meaning of love will change with each different relationship and depends more on its concept of depth, versatility, and complexity. But at times the very existence of love is questioned. Some say it is false and meaningless. It says that it never exist, because there has been many instances of hatred and brutality in relationships. The history of our world has witnessed many such events. There has been hatred between brothers, parents and children, sibling rivalry and spouses have failed each other. Friends have betrayed each other; the son has killed his parents for the throne, the count is endless. Even the modern generation is also facing with such dilemmas everyday. But ?love? is not responsible for that. It is us, the people, who have forgotten the meaning of love and have undertaken such gruesome apathy.

In the past the study of philosophy and religion has done many speculations on the phenomenon of love. But love has always ruled, in music, poetry, paintings, sculptor and literature. Psychology has also done lot of dissection to the essence of love, just like what biology, anthropology and neuroscience has also done to it.

Psychology portrays love as a cognitive phenomenon with a social cause. It is said to have three components in the book of psychology: Intimacy, Commitment, and Passion. Also, in an ancient proverb love is defined as a high form of tolerance. And this view has been accepted and advocated by both philosophers and scholars. Love also includes compatibility. But it is more of journey to the unknown when the concept of compatibility comes into picture. Maybe the person whom we see in front of us, may be least compatible than the person who is miles away. We might talk to each other and portray that we love each other, but practically we do not end up into any relationship. Also in compatibility, the key is to think about the long term successful relationship, not a short journey. We need to understand each other and must always remember that no body is perfect.

Be together, share your joy and sorrow, understand each other, provide space to each other, but always be there for each others need. And surely love will blossom to strengthen your relationship with your matter of affection.

The worst Genting trip I had been

With the excited heart going to genting on Friday night.
I can't sllep well in the bus, the rest of my friends they sleep tight.
I'm thinking what I have to play in the theme park

We reach at 4am on Saturday, while waiting to check in 1 of my coll suggest going to have a look in casino 1st. while we check in to the hotel on 9am, I'm suggest that we are going to theme park on 10am, but they said they want to have some rest, and postpone. There was rain after our lunch, so I'm suggest that we going to play at indoor, but none of them want to go for thatm they would prefer going to casino.I'm don't like gamble, and I refuse that,

at last my trip in genting is :-
sleep,eat,sleep,eat,sleep,eat.... movies (1hr30mins),eat and sleep again
I spend RM270 for the trip, I felt like cheated by your guys, because I did ask before booking all the things, will you guys going to theme park you guys said yes,will you guys play in indoor if there was rain, you guys said yes.
Guys:-I would prefer stay in Penang, for sleep and eat for the weekend, I'm felt like I get cheated by you all.
Guys this will be my first trip and the last trip with you all.

This is the WORST genting trip I had been

三轮车的感人故事。。。

从前在中国有一名女子， 她家境很富裕。
却偏偏爱上了一名音乐家。
可是该名女子的家人却反对，家人一直要把她嫁给远在英国的一名男子。
该名音乐家为了女子的幸福着和前途着想，于是劝女子远嫁他乡，
临走前，女子来跟音乐家道别。
音乐家给了女子一块钱，说这是他们的定情信物。两人带着依依不舍的心情分开了。

四十年后，女子回来了。她一心想从遇他的情郎。
走出了飞机场，叫了一辆三轮车。
竟然发现三轮车夫竟是他的爱人，
可是他却没认得她。女子很伤心很伤心。
到了目的地
三轮车夫说：‘太太五毛钱，谢谢！'
女子很伤心的把他们的定情信物“一块钱”给了他
女子说:'给你一块钱不必找了.'
三轮车夫就很开心的忙到谢。

三轮车夫回到家时一直想不通为什么他只要五毛可是她给他一块钱呢？
于是他就写了一首歌
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三轮车，跑得快，上面坐个老太太
要五毛给一块
你说奇怪不奇怪。


哈哈！感人吧

Life must go on

I had been suffered alot from last week:-

Thinking about what is the right decision that I have to take

Thinking about everything

At last I told myself I have to be happy

I have to be strong as I do before

I can't fall down and can't be so upset.

I'm decide to love myself more then before

Life must go on~~~

Cheers mate...

Friends....

I received a phone call from you last night
I'm vair excited...
I miss you so much...

We had been quite a few year didn't meet up
Maybe we been busy with our own things. But it doesn't means I will forget you.


We know each other since we are in primary school
That time I'm still don't know how to speak Mandarin
You teach me alot, you never give me up, and you never put me aside.
But at last I get to catch you, I never let you down, I know that you are so happy... :) ...

We play together, we eat together, we sleep together, we study together.
A lot of memories come to my mine.

Even the distance let us part
But do remember
Friends..... I love you...
I'm cherish our friendship

我好想你。。。。

我好累，可不可以抱着我。让我大哭一场。

*给你的一封信*

对不起，
我不是有心把你送走，可是你真的很不听话，很玩皮。

你去到那边不像自己的家那样自由，一定要听大人的话，看到大人时，记得要叫人，人家才会说你有礼貌。记得要爱清洁，记得要收拾自己的房间。记得不要再逃学，要好好读书。要懂事。要听话，要乖。

昨晚我叫你收拾东西时，你问我，我们去哪里。我不敢告诉你，因为我怕我会在你面前流泪。
你走了我在你房间哭了一天，因为我太想你了。可是我不能留你在我身边，我知道如果我这样做的话，反而害了你。希望你会明白，不要怪我好吗？

你是我唯一的亲人，也许因为是这样我反而害了你。
也许我太疼你，
也许我太爱你，
也许我太相信你，
也许我不会教导你。
我也知道有时候我也很过分，我没听你的解释。
也常常骂你，冷落你,
也许因为这样，让你没有家的温暖。
也许因为这样，让你一直往外跑。
也许我应该听听你的意见。

我知道我是一个很失败的姐姐，
可是我只要你知道我永远都爱你，疼你。

我不在你身边要乖，要听话，要好好读书。
姐姐永远永远都爱你。

永远都爱你的姐姐上